Second Chance

Many little things  together makes up this big thing called "LIFE".

There are some things that we want to do, then there are other things which we feel we want to do from a long time, but somehow keep postponing that.

Well, reasons for postponing something that we want to do is simple, blaming others or the situation itself and proving to ourselves that, we were right, but something wasn't happening or waiting for a fairy with a magic wand to cast a spell on us.....

Now, there are such things in my life, which I have been wanting to do for sometime now, but postponing, by saying " I am very busy or I don't have time". Am sure it's very convenient for most of us to blame the poor time.

The first and foremost thing I want to do from a long time is to, play with the kids.... I feel when I play with the kids, somewhere I am reinventing and reviving my childhood days.... The innocence, those cute words, nothing can match a child's cute smile.... When I say I want to play with the kids, it is with the kids of 80s and early 90s era who were alien to laptops, mobile and video games, when playing meant going out, getting sweat and back home with bruised knees or hands.

The second thing which i want to do, is to disconnect myself from the outer world and talk to my inner self more and listen to my inner voice( this is something which I keep failing miserably, hmm failures are the stepping stones to success)

A day without any gadgets and gizmos..... A day where I want to connect only with myself and say I, Me and Myself...... A day where I can do some sprinf cleaning of my inner self and give back the rejuvenated and revived me to my life, and when I say my life it only means my little angel and my darling hubby, the two wonderful people who have added colors to my life and made it worth living.

The last and the final thing I want to do is that, live life to the fullest extent, without any complains and regrets. The beauty of life is in living it every second without the worry of next second..

Understanding that just like me, others are here to live theirs..

The joy of life lies in the little things, like trying to count the millions stars, watching the butterfly, getting drenched in the rain, listening to a soothing music, holding a baby's hand and following her foot steps and getting lost in her beautiful smile.

Do what your heart says is right and believe in yourself and your dreams, when u get a second chance to do something which you wanted to, just grab that opportunity......

Am sure you must have some to do things in life, go ahead and do them now, because life is too short for regrets.....

"This post is a part of the #SecondChance activity at Blogadda in association with MaxLife Insurance.

The Day He Lied To Me

Why do someone lie to their dear ones? Is it the fear of losing them or the bitter truth which hurts than the comforting lie. Maybe that's why someone somewhere said, truth is bitter......

What happens to a dear one, after a lie is told, is it easy to accept or does the person feel betrayed??
This differs from person to person, some might take it easy and forget it whereas others might be hurt for the rest of their lives.
Whatever reasons are given, it's a courageous and a good thing to be truthful.

Ok, enough of all the mora science class, I will jump straight to an incident in my life.
Like other days, I waved goodbye to my husband, who was leaving to his work. As I was heading home with my little angel with me,  a friend of mine wished me happy birthday with a big hug and lovely smile and left, With a smile on my face and surprise in my mind, I checked the date, it was indeed my birthday.....

After my lil one's arrival, these trivial things about me didn't seem to be very important to me,  nor did I do a countdown of my birthday from a week's time( which I was used to 😄😄)
Since my hubby hadn't wished me, even he had forgotten.....

I was making my little one repeat the words 'Happy Birthday Mummy' and had a good time in her cute attempts....

Evening I dressed my little one and took her out for a walk, so that she can meet and play with her friends, at that time my hubby called on my mobile to inform that he would be traveling abroad the same night and will be back after a week, I told ok with a heavy heart.....
I wanted to spend the rest of my evening at home with my little one and hubby, and since he was leaving it was quite disappointing for me, that too on my birthday...

With a heavy heart, I thought I will go for a long walk with my lil one and come home late, so me and my angel went to a nearby park and played for sometime and came back.
There was a pleasant surprise awaiting for me, my entrance door was ajar and a loud music was playing from the hall, I was shocked to see all these and rushed to see who could have done all this?

To my surprise I saw my hubby sitting in a very relaxed way on the sofa and the killer smile....
Even before I could say or ask anything, my hubby came and hugged me and wished me happy birthday and told me that he had booked for our evening dinner, within few mins I got ready for the beautiful evening, and my hubby dressed up my lil one.
We had our dinner and headed straight to home, I was still dumbstruck and surprised, we reached home, I quickly put my baby to bed, as she had slept on the way.

Hubby came to me and told, "Nothing is more important than u in this world, I never forget your birthday, I had planned all this a month back, I love you.


My hubby has lied about his official trip, but planned a pleasant surprise for be on my birthday, so I feel a lie when told to bring smile on your loved ones is accepted, though it nothing but a lie .

This is how he lied to me and made my day special and memorable😘😘

This post is a part of write over the weekend, an initiative for indian bloggers at blogadda

A Click That Changed My Life

As usual I woke up at 7AM, the thought of going to office on a Monday morning is too tiring and exhausts my energy. However I forced myself from my warm cozy bed and headed to freshen up myself and get ready.  I was in no mood to have breakfast, inspite of mom forcing me, just drank a glass of milk, hugged mom and waved her goodbye.....

As I was heading towards the bus station, my mind was coming up with various things to bunk office, however none of ideas were liked by myself and shortly I was in my office, giving fake smile and hi to my colleagues.                                            

As usual my day started with my work, and nothing unusual or special I thought, everyone working like machines, or maybe forcing themselves to work on a Monday morning, just like me....  I was just waiting for the day to end, or rather my Monday Blues, or shall I say Monday Greys to disappear. Now and then I would check the time on my laptop, only to see that not much time would have passed.

I thought of checking my personal email for sometime( ya I know, it's not right, but like I told, I am still in my Monday grey mood, so it's kinda acceptable)
I logged Into my gmail account, thinking that I would have to  delete lot of advertising mails and stupid forwards, after a minute I was seeing my personal mails, there was a mail from a stranger from a matrimony site, who had showed interest in my profile.....( yeah, yeah I was on a matrimony site)
Now, this guy caught my attention, not because he had a killer looks or chiseled features,just went by my instinct and clicked the accept button, to know more about this guy

Within half an hour, very promptly be replied that, if I could share my details, which I did after a long thought, my Monday had become very colorful and not just that, shortly we fell in love and informed our parents, who In turn met and gave us the green signal and got us married.

It has been 5years since we are married and are blessed with a lovely angel.
Oops, I forgot to mention his name, he is Mithun.... One who changed my Monday and life to a colorful and beautiful one.

This is how a click changed my life, in an unimaginable and a beautiful way....
Click your way to the right path, and your destination will be wonderful.

This post is a part of write over the weekend, an initiative for indian bloggers at blogadda.

Where did I vanish

where did I vanish all these days, was I too busy with others things that I wasnt interested about you, or was I just too lazy to remember my password, login and type whatever I want to....                                 Ok, I will say that I was a combination of the above.                                                                               Whatever the reasons are, am happy that am back to my most fabourtite place and doing my relaxed thing, yes writing......